One of the greatest breakthrough killers is bitterness. It
comes in any form from anyone. And the worst response during bitter attacks is
to waste time in depression. Jesus has been judged by men but he continued
loving them anyway. So don’t think that this is an isolated case because Christians
from around the world are experiencing the same struggle. But this is what the
Lord says, “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."
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Releasing forgiveness is the best thing you can do for
yourself. Just open up and release all the pain it caused you. You have been
used in the past and God allowed it to happen to test and humble you. Forgiving
them is a step of faith, but move forward because God said so. Do forgive them
and give them a second chance for the sake of your heart-peace. I know you have
been struggling inside because of anger and hatred, but hurt only manipulates
your heart.
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But don’t give in to the devil. The real enemy is satan, and
he will use someone to hurt you so you will sin. And after you sin, satan will
condemn you up to death, until you’re out and are no more. But don’t listen to
your emotions and to the voice that exaggerates the real issue. Let the love of
God fill your heart. Focus on Jesus and embrace the power of the cross. It has
enough grace to make forgiveness possible. For the sake of Christ in your heart,
stop being childish and emotional, but learn to keep your promise even when it
hurts. This is the best opportunity to exercise the word “move forward”. When
you forgive them moving forward is already healing your heart. Get up! Be
mature and understand that no one is perfect but God alone. Now receive the
grace and let it flow in your heart by willfully giving grace.